Your generous nature will force you to jump into the middle of a conflict today -- you want to help make the peace. And you can help a great deal, but once you do you need to get out from the middle of everything as soon as possible! When the resolution has been reached, flip back to your more stingy urges and tell everyone to take care of the rest of the issues without you. You can't fix everything for everyone. Do your part and then move on. Focus on your own needs again.