There's a wonderful feeling of liberation you get when you don't care what anyone thinks about you, so why are you worried about seeming perfect? The stress caused by always trying to dress the right way, say the right thing, and be the right kind of person takes a lot of energy out of you. To start feeling good, give up the useless quest for perfection. Let yourself do what feels right, and you will become the kind of person you can be proud of.