Don't be afraid to use flattery to get what you want today. It's a powerful tool and one that you don't use enough! Just make sure that the glowing comments you toss out are based on truth. People know when they're being schmoozed. There is also a chance that you'll be the recipient of a few nice comments yourself. Take each one with a grain of salt and you'll learn how to have a healthy ego without letting anyone take advantage of you.